I found this on baidu and would love to share it with everyone here at quilt. can you relate to the author? --cam
Original : http://tieba.baidu.com/f?kz=581947513
Repost by xiaoyanl : www.byj.co.kr talkbox #56977 (in Chinese)
author : 裴莲儿 (2009-5-22 09:04)
Chinese to English : cam
[Trans] [Not completely suffering] Reclusive YJ
Recently someone from this website posted Mr Cai Kangyong’s famous diary. I try to reflect the article onto myself after reading it again. In the article it states: if you idolize a star, you must put it in writing – this I manage to do. It also states: if you idolize a star, you must let your mum know – this I manage to do (I did not just tell my mum, I even told my husband in a heat of the moment when I was not completely rational. Let’s put the seriously damaged consequences aside temporarily). It then states: if you idolize a star, you should go to see him in person – this I can’t manage to do, no matter how much I scratch my head to pieces, because my idol BYJ is in reclusion once more.
There has not been any news about YJ for a long while. Occasionally we get to hear that he has been to the library, the art museum, the dye factory and the salt mine to gather information and take photos. Often a few isolated words and phrases, at the most one or two blurred photos, in an attempt to provide a remedy for his fans’ lonely hearts.
It appears that reclusion is a convention for YJ. Like in the past, each time he finishes a project, he goes into hiding for a year or so. Wasn’t there a story about how after the peak of his drama “First Love” he was in reclusion for ten months? By the time he returned to the TV station, even the concierge at the entrance could not recognize him. This time around it has been over a year and a half, if we also count his recuperation from the injuries after TWSGG.
Although during this period, he made several magnificent appearances. In Japan twice, the MBC’s award ceremony twice, the ambassador of travel, the medal award presentation and the white tiger of TWSSG’s wedding. These appearances are far too little for his deserving fans that have been missing him deeply. Every time when the news about another wedding, we are like the nagging Ajima hoping he may turn up. But the end result is too often a no show amidst the crowd. No matter how disappointed his fans are. He stays far away like before, away from the aloofly noisy pla-ces and people. A recluse in his own world, leaving behind the soft clouds and light winds.
Honestly speaking, from this point of view, being a BYJ fan is really hard work. Recently I pop my head over to another popular star’s site (don’t kill me). This star is constantly appearing in public. He is promoting his new album straight after the TV drama. His next project of another TV drama and a movie are waiting for him in the pipeline. His news is reported one after another. His website is boiling, postings such as,”I am going to see him”, “I have seen him”, “I just returned and haven’t got over from feeling dizzy after seeing him” are all over the pla-ce. Various activities, video, artwork are everywhere, until our eyes can’t take it anymore. His fans are over indulging in happiness. I was following the lead, but at the same time, when I think about YJ, my heart feels somewhat quite lonesome.
Occasionally I even feel a bit resentful: YJ a, YJ, loving you is not an easy task.
Back to being a bit resentful, but truly in my mind it was clear that YJ’s excellence and how he stands out from the crowd, are his most precious qualities.
In this world, there is fewer and fewer who would handle matters in the same manner as BYJ in the entertainment industry. We could say it is fairly unique. New stars, more intense competitions. It is hard to stay at the top. Maintaining public appearance and popularity is most important. Fame and fortune come hand in hand. Just a simple truth. But this truth would not hold up when it comes to BYJ.
Fame and fortune is not BYJ’s aim, although he has been successful when compared with others. Improving himself continuously, enriching himself continuously and pursing self perfection continuously, are the utmost boundary for BYJ.
Since his debut, he has been behaving this way. Although this kind of individualism does not go down well with the trends and could trouble him frequently. A junior dares not participate in variety shows, dares not to accept interviews, ignoring piles of script offers. Doesn’t buy into others. In turn, he recedes and went off on a self education journey. He paid no attention to the TV station’s freeze and the media’s criticism. He continued enriching himself quietly, polishing himself, preparing himself for “the act with restraint on the bases of extensive knowledge”. Until one day, when he returned with a graceful smile and confident steps, as powerful as a thunderbolt. Hence forth standing at the summit, pointing and smiling at the world.
But his reclusion has not changed, live simply by wisely, live tranquilly by remotely. YJ knows the essence of it deeply.
Actually, without his continuous pursuit of self perfection and self improvement, we would not have such an enriched and unusually refined BYJ. It was said that there are lights of wisdom in his eyes, where do they come from? It was also said that there is this noble aura in his movements, how did he possess them?
Answer :
always have a book in his hand
Erudited and received in deep knowledge
Indifferent to fame and fortune
Without desire is firm and uncompromising
He is a contemporary reclusive star. He is someone that I admire, love and praise sincerely from my heart
YJ a
You, like the mountains are high and the rivers are far, I will look from here, far across the distance.
You, like the tree of love stay evergreen, I will accompany you forever, stay true.
YJ a
Continuing your joyful reclusion. I can manage… sob sob.
：【不算苦水】隱者勇俊
最近有人在吧裡貼出了蔡康永先生那篇著名的文章《當你喜歡了一位偶像》，我又對照著自己重新拜讀了一遍。文章裡說：當你喜歡了一位偶像，一定要給他寫下些文字――這條我做到了；又說：當你喜歡了一位偶像，一定要告訴你的媽媽――這條我也做到了（我不僅告訴了我媽媽，極度發熱之下還很不理智的告訴了我LG，以至於導致了粉嚴重的后果，這暫且不提）；還說：當你喜歡了一位偶像，一定要去看一看他――這條麼，現在我就是抓破了腦袋，也沒辦法做到。因為我的偶像，大明星裴勇俊先生，又一次的隱身了。
有挺長一段時間了，我們的勇俊又沒有什麼消息了，隻是偶爾會傳來他去圖書館、美術館、染坊、鹽田各處拍攝採集資料的消息。但也都是隻言片語，最多有一兩張模模糊糊的照片聊以安慰hc們寂寞的芳心。
隱身是勇俊的慣例，過去他就是這樣，拍完一部作品后，經常就會隱身個一年半載的。不是有那個故事嗎，他拍完《初戀》走紅了，可是一下子隱身近十個月沒有露面，等他再回電視台的時候，看門的老大爺都不認得他是誰了。這次加上拍完太王后養傷，差不多有近一年半的時間在隱身了。
雖然中間也有日本行、兩次MBC頒獎、旅游大使、頒授勛章及參加白虎的婚禮幾次華麗麗的露面，可是對於我們這些對他日思夜盼的hc們來說，真是遠遠的不夠。每次一有誰誰要結婚，我們就像祥林嫂一樣念念叨叨地希望他能參加，但最后，熱鬧的人群中，總是不見他的身影，一任hc們哭天搶地無比的怨念，他依舊是超然地遠離開世俗的喧囂，隱身於自己的世界，隻在身后留下一片雲淡風清。。。。。。
說實話，從這個角度來說，做勇俊的迷多少是有些辛苦的。最近我一直在另一個帥哥的貼吧爬牆（自備鍋蓋，乖乖受pia），此大帥哥最近活動頻繁，前些天電視劇剛在電視台播出，這些天又在全國各地飛來飛去宣傳唱片，接下來馬上就要開拍新的電視劇和電影，一個消息接一個消息。他的吧裡就像開了鍋一樣，到處都是“我就要去見老大啦”“我見到老大啦”“我見到老大回來啦，持續眩暈中”的hc貼，各種活動的報道視頻圖片滿天飛，讓人目不暇接。hc們如痴如醉，真是幸福啊幸福。我跟著熱鬧之余，想起我的勇俊，心裡不免也有些些的寂寞。
有時也會怨念地想：勇俊啊勇俊，喜歡你真是一件不容易的事。
但怨念歸怨念，其實我心裡清楚得很，勇俊的好，勇俊的卓爾不群，勇俊的珍貴之處，也恰恰在此。
現在這個世道，娛樂圈裡像勇俊這樣行事做法的人是少之又少的，甚至可以說是獨一無二的。新人輩出，競爭激烈，一不留神就會地位不保，所以維持曝光率，維持高人氣是第一重要的。有名就會有利，這是個再簡單不過的道理。可是這個道理到了勇俊這裡，就變得沒什麼道理了。
名和利始終不是勇俊的目標，盡管他做得比誰都成功。不斷地提升自己，不斷地豐富自己，不斷地自我完善才是勇俊追求的最高境界。
縱觀勇俊出道以來的經歷，他一直是這樣堅持的。盡管這種特立獨行、不合流俗的做法經常給他帶來麻煩。年紀輕輕的小字輩，竟敢不參加電視台活動，不接受訪問，不理會成堆的片約，誰的帳也不買，一個轉身就瀟洒地遠走，獨自修行去了。電視台封殺他，媒體輕侮他，可他依然全不理會，隻是默默地充實自己，打磨自己，准備著厚積而薄發。直到有一天，他帶著優雅的笑容，邁著自信的步伐從容歸來，挾萬鈞之勢，掀風雷之變，從此屹立在成功的頂點，指點江山，笑看風雲。
但他的隱者情懷依舊沒有改變。淡泊以明智，寧靜以致遠。勇俊是深諳其中之精髓的。
其實，沒有他這樣高人隱士般的不斷的自我完善，自我修煉，就沒有現在這樣內涵豐富、 超凡脫俗的裴勇俊。都說他的眼神裡蘊藏著智慧的光芒，這智慧從何而來？都說他舉手投足間有清貴的氣質，這清貴又是如何修得？
答曰：手不釋卷，博學眾長；淡泊名利，無欲則剛。
他就是這樣一位當代的隱者，他就是這樣一位讓我打從心眼裡敬佩愛戴，歡喜贊嘆的人。
勇俊啊，
你山高水遠，我會在這裡遙遙相望；
你心樹長青，我會伴你到地久天長。
勇俊啊，你繼續快樂地隱身吧，我挺得住～～5555
作者：裴蓮兒 2009-5-22 09:04 回復此發言
Original : http://tieba.baidu.com/f?kz=581947513
Repost by xiaoyanl : www.byj.co.kr talkbox #56977 (in Chinese)
author : 裴莲儿 (2009-5-22 09:04)
Chinese to English : cam
[Trans] [Not completely suffering] Reclusive YJ
Recently someone from this website posted Mr Cai Kangyong’s famous diary
There has not been any news about YJ for a long while. Occasionally we get to hear that he has been to the library, the art museum, the dye factory and the salt mine to gather information and take photos. Often a few isolated words and phrases, at the most one or two blurred photos, in an attempt to provide a remedy for his fans’ lonely hearts.
It appears that reclusion is a convention for YJ. Like in the past, each time he finishes a project, he goes into hiding for a year or so. Wasn’t there a story about how after the peak of his drama “First Love” he was in reclusion for ten months? By the time he returned to the TV station, even the concierge at the entrance could not recognize him. This time around it has been over a year and a half, if we also count his recuperation from the injuries after TWSGG.
Although during this period, he made several magnificent appearances. In Japan twice, the MBC’s award ceremony twice, the ambassador of travel, the medal award presentation and the white tiger of TWSSG’s wedding. These appearances are far too little for his deserving fans that have been missing him deeply. Every time when the news about another wedding, we are like the nagging Ajima hoping he may turn up. But the end result is too often a no show amidst the crowd. No matter how disappointed his fans are. He stays far away like before, away from the aloofly noisy pla-ces and people. A recluse in his own world, leaving behind the soft clouds and light winds.
Honestly speaking, from this point of view, being a BYJ fan is really hard work. Recently I pop my head over to another popular star’s site (don’t kill me). This star is constantly appearing in public. He is promoting his new album straight after the TV drama. His next project of another TV drama and a movie are waiting for him in the pipeline. His news is reported one after another. His website is boiling, postings such as,”I am going to see him”, “I have seen him”, “I just returned and haven’t got over from feeling dizzy after seeing him” are all over the pla-ce. Various activities, video, artwork are everywhere, until our eyes can’t take it anymore. His fans are over indulging in happiness. I was following the lead, but at the same time, when I think about YJ, my heart feels somewhat quite lonesome.
Occasionally I even feel a bit resentful: YJ a, YJ, loving you is not an easy task.
Back to being a bit resentful, but truly in my mind it was clear that YJ’s excellence and how he stands out from the crowd, are his most precious qualities.
In this world, there is fewer and fewer who would handle matters in the same manner as BYJ in the entertainment industry. We could say it is fairly unique. New stars, more intense competitions. It is hard to stay at the top. Maintaining public appearance and popularity is most important. Fame and fortune come hand in hand. Just a simple truth. But this truth would not hold up when it comes to BYJ.
Fame and fortune is not BYJ’s aim, although he has been successful when compared with others. Improving himself continuously, enriching himself continuously and pursing self perfection continuously, are the utmost boundary for BYJ.
Since his debut, he has been behaving this way. Although this kind of individualism does not go down well with the trends and could trouble him frequently. A junior dares not participate in variety shows, dares not to accept interviews, ignoring piles of script offers. Doesn’t buy into others. In turn, he recedes and went off on a self education journey. He paid no attention to the TV station’s freeze and the media’s criticism. He continued enriching himself quietly, polishing himself, preparing himself for “the act with restraint on the bases of extensive knowledge”. Until one day, when he returned with a graceful smile and confident steps, as powerful as a thunderbolt. Hence forth standing at the summit, pointing and smiling at the world.
But his reclusion has not changed, live simply by wisely, live tranquilly by remotely. YJ knows the essence of it deeply.
Actually, without his continuous pursuit of self perfection and self improvement, we would not have such an enriched and unusually refined BYJ. It was said that there are lights of wisdom in his eyes, where do they come from? It was also said that there is this noble aura in his movements, how did he possess them?
Answer :
always have a book in his hand
Erudited and received in deep knowledge
Indifferent to fame and fortune
Without desire is firm and uncompromising
He is a contemporary reclusive star. He is someone that I admire, love and praise sincerely from my heart
YJ a
You, like the mountains are high and the rivers are far, I will look from here, far across the distance.
You, like the tree of love stay evergreen, I will accompany you forever, stay true.
YJ a
Continuing your joyful reclusion. I can manage… sob sob.
：【不算苦水】隱者勇俊
最近有人在吧裡貼出了蔡康永先生那篇著名的文章《當你喜歡了一位偶像》，我又對照著自己重新拜讀了一遍。文章裡說：當你喜歡了一位偶像，一定要給他寫下些文字――這條我做到了；又說：當你喜歡了一位偶像，一定要告訴你的媽媽――這條我也做到了（我不僅告訴了我媽媽，極度發熱之下還很不理智的告訴了我LG，以至於導致了粉嚴重的后果，這暫且不提）；還說：當你喜歡了一位偶像，一定要去看一看他――這條麼，現在我就是抓破了腦袋，也沒辦法做到。因為我的偶像，大明星裴勇俊先生，又一次的隱身了。
有挺長一段時間了，我們的勇俊又沒有什麼消息了，隻是偶爾會傳來他去圖書館、美術館、染坊、鹽田各處拍攝採集資料的消息。但也都是隻言片語，最多有一兩張模模糊糊的照片聊以安慰hc們寂寞的芳心。
隱身是勇俊的慣例，過去他就是這樣，拍完一部作品后，經常就會隱身個一年半載的。不是有那個故事嗎，他拍完《初戀》走紅了，可是一下子隱身近十個月沒有露面，等他再回電視台的時候，看門的老大爺都不認得他是誰了。這次加上拍完太王后養傷，差不多有近一年半的時間在隱身了。
雖然中間也有日本行、兩次MBC頒獎、旅游大使、頒授勛章及參加白虎的婚禮幾次華麗麗的露面，可是對於我們這些對他日思夜盼的hc們來說，真是遠遠的不夠。每次一有誰誰要結婚，我們就像祥林嫂一樣念念叨叨地希望他能參加，但最后，熱鬧的人群中，總是不見他的身影，一任hc們哭天搶地無比的怨念，他依舊是超然地遠離開世俗的喧囂，隱身於自己的世界，隻在身后留下一片雲淡風清。。。。。。
說實話，從這個角度來說，做勇俊的迷多少是有些辛苦的。最近我一直在另一個帥哥的貼吧爬牆（自備鍋蓋，乖乖受pia），此大帥哥最近活動頻繁，前些天電視劇剛在電視台播出，這些天又在全國各地飛來飛去宣傳唱片，接下來馬上就要開拍新的電視劇和電影，一個消息接一個消息。他的吧裡就像開了鍋一樣，到處都是“我就要去見老大啦”“我見到老大啦”“我見到老大回來啦，持續眩暈中”的hc貼，各種活動的報道視頻圖片滿天飛，讓人目不暇接。hc們如痴如醉，真是幸福啊幸福。我跟著熱鬧之余，想起我的勇俊，心裡不免也有些些的寂寞。
有時也會怨念地想：勇俊啊勇俊，喜歡你真是一件不容易的事。
但怨念歸怨念，其實我心裡清楚得很，勇俊的好，勇俊的卓爾不群，勇俊的珍貴之處，也恰恰在此。
現在這個世道，娛樂圈裡像勇俊這樣行事做法的人是少之又少的，甚至可以說是獨一無二的。新人輩出，競爭激烈，一不留神就會地位不保，所以維持曝光率，維持高人氣是第一重要的。有名就會有利，這是個再簡單不過的道理。可是這個道理到了勇俊這裡，就變得沒什麼道理了。
名和利始終不是勇俊的目標，盡管他做得比誰都成功。不斷地提升自己，不斷地豐富自己，不斷地自我完善才是勇俊追求的最高境界。
縱觀勇俊出道以來的經歷，他一直是這樣堅持的。盡管這種特立獨行、不合流俗的做法經常給他帶來麻煩。年紀輕輕的小字輩，竟敢不參加電視台活動，不接受訪問，不理會成堆的片約，誰的帳也不買，一個轉身就瀟洒地遠走，獨自修行去了。電視台封殺他，媒體輕侮他，可他依然全不理會，隻是默默地充實自己，打磨自己，准備著厚積而薄發。直到有一天，他帶著優雅的笑容，邁著自信的步伐從容歸來，挾萬鈞之勢，掀風雷之變，從此屹立在成功的頂點，指點江山，笑看風雲。
但他的隱者情懷依舊沒有改變。淡泊以明智，寧靜以致遠。勇俊是深諳其中之精髓的。
其實，沒有他這樣高人隱士般的不斷的自我完善，自我修煉，就沒有現在這樣內涵豐富、 超凡脫俗的裴勇俊。都說他的眼神裡蘊藏著智慧的光芒，這智慧從何而來？都說他舉手投足間有清貴的氣質，這清貴又是如何修得？
答曰：手不釋卷，博學眾長；淡泊名利，無欲則剛。
他就是這樣一位當代的隱者，他就是這樣一位讓我打從心眼裡敬佩愛戴，歡喜贊嘆的人。
勇俊啊，
你山高水遠，我會在這裡遙遙相望；
你心樹長青，我會伴你到地久天長。
勇俊啊，你繼續快樂地隱身吧，我挺得住～～5555
作者：裴蓮兒 2009-5-22 09:04 回復此發言
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